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We'll give you tools to live with integrity and guidance to find redemption after betrayal.

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Welcome Burris community!

Thanks for visiting us. We'd be honored to be a part of your journey.


We'll give you tools to live with integrity and guidance to find redemption after betrayal.
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Who this is for...
 
MEN:
 
You're committed to rebuilding trust but keep fumbling.
Maybe you need help between sessions with your coach/counselor.
You struggle to apply what you learn to your unique situation.
You want guidance from people who've lived it, not just heard about it.
 
WIVES:
 
You need someone to coach your husband on the steps to take for restoration.
You know there's something missing but can't quite put your finger on what it is.
You are stuck and need new insights and information.
 
COUPLES:
 
You need something to spur recovery conversations.
You need something fresh and different to keep momentum.

You want a way to see where the next opportunities for growth are.

 
MEN:
 
You're committed to rebuilding trust but keep fumbling.
Maybe you need help between sessions with your coach/counselor.
You struggle to apply what you learn to your unique situation.
You want guidance from people who've lived it, not just heard about it.
 
WIVES:
 
You need someone to coach your husband on the steps to take for restoration.
You know there's something missing but can't quite put your finger on what it is.
You are stuck and need new insights and information.
 
COUPLES:
 
You need something to spur recovery conversations.
You need something fresh and different to keep momentum.

You want a way to see where the next opportunities for growth are.

What we'll
cover...

We'll talk about the big-ticket stuff, of course.  But also the nuanced and subtle parts of recovery, trust building and marital restoration that are often overlooked!
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Intimacy Aversion - how we hide from God, Others, Our Wives and Ourselves
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Empathy - compassionate engagement of our wife's pain
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TrustBuilding - practical examples of how to build trust that aren't just "checking the box"
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Mindset - how we adopt the mind of Christ; the right mindset for recovery and restoration
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Intimacy - how to cultivate healthy, authentic intimacy as a couple
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Security & Safety - how to weave these back into the fabric of the relationship
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Shame - what is and isn't appropriate and how to not swirl in the shame spiral
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Sanctification & Character change -  what it means and how to become a new man, in a new marriage
And more!

How we'll help...

Video Vault

With access to our Video Vault you'll find help with things like Intimacy Aversion, Empathy, Defensiveness, Triggers and more.

Tool Box

Get the tools we use every day with clients and in our own lives. Each with its own instructional video to help you implement correctly rather than just wing it.
Live Teaching Calls
Jump on a live webinar with our coaches to get live teaching on big ticket topics.


How we'll help...

Video Vault

With access to our Video Vault you'll find help with things like Intimacy Aversion, Empathy, Defensiveness, Trustbuilding, Triggers and more.
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Tool Box

Get the tools we use every day with clients and in our own lives. Each with its own instructional video to help you implement correctly rather than just wing it.
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Live Teaching Calls
Jump on a live webinar with our coaches to get live teaching on big ticket topics.


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Who you're getting...
Thomas A. Berry
In 2012, after a decade of marriage, a successful career, two children with another on the way his hidden life of sexual addiction came to light. The process of finding freedom instantly became the fight of and for his life. Now, 10 years after being found out, he is celebrating a life and marriage better than he could have ever imagined; built on the foundation of Jesus, with an awakened heart and pursuit of integrity. For the past several years, Thomas has been walking with other men helping them along their journey towards sexual integrity. He works full time as a Redemptive Living Certified Coach and also has served in a pastoral role at Grace Fellowship in Paducah, KY.  He is committed to helping other men who have struggled with sexual integrity issues live the life God intended through doing the hard work of recovery. Thomas co-authored the Re:Build Workbook, a companion to Worthy of Her Trust.

Thomas A. Berry
In 2012, after a decade of marriage, a successful career, two children with another on the way his hidden life of sexual addiction came to light. The process of finding freedom instantly became the fight of and for his life. Now, 10 years after being found out, he is celebrating a life and marriage better than he could have ever imagined; built on the foundation of Jesus, with an awakened heart and pursuit of integrity. For the past several years, Thomas has been walking with other men helping them along their journey towards sexual integrity. He works full time as a Redemptive Living Certified Coach and also has served in a pastoral role at Grace Fellowship in Paducah, KY.  He is committed to helping other men who have struggled with sexual integrity issues live the life God intended through doing the hard work of recovery. Thomas co-authored the Re:Build Workbook, a companion to Worthy of Her Trust.

Jordan Jones
In 2011, Jordan blew up his life. His secret addiction to pornography followed him into marriage but it did not stay a secret for long. After having struggled with sexual integrity for most of his life, he found hope and freedom through the process of recovery. This was a profound change with sparked a passion in him to want to help other men find that same hope and freedom. Since then, Jordan has been sharing his recovery story and helping lead other men towards a life of sexual integrity. Jordan has a Bachelors of Art in Communication from Palm Beach Atlantic University and a Masters Degree from Denver Seminary. He is originally from South Carolina but has called Colorado home for the last 11 years. He and his wife Kate have two little girls and 1 baby boy that keep them on their toes!


Jordan Jones
In 2011, Jordan blew up his life. His secret addiction to pornography followed him into marriage but it did not stay a secret for long. After having struggled with sexual integrity for most of his life, he found hope and freedom through the process of recovery. This was a profound change with sparked a passion in him to want to help other men find that same hope and freedom. Since then, Jordan has been sharing his recovery story and helping lead other men towards a life of sexual integrity. Jordan has a Bachelors of Art in Communication from Palm Beach Atlantic University and a Masters Degree from Denver Seminary. He is originally from South Carolina but has called Colorado home for the last 11 years. He and his wife Kate have two little girls and 1 baby boy that keep them on their toes!


Jason B. Martinkus
After sexual addiction almost took his life and marriage, Jason was called to help other men. He received a Bachelors degree in Finance from the University of Oklahoma and worked in the corporate world for companies such as Arthur Andersen and Interstate Batteries. After leaving corporate and going into ministry, he went back to school and received a Masters in Counseling from Denver Seminary. Today he is a Board Certified Coach and President of Redemptive Living, a Denver-based coaching and speaking ministry. He has dedicated his life to helping men find freedom from sexual integrity issues and marriages find redemption beyond betrayal. His first book, Worthy of Her Trust (Waterbrook Press) released in 2014, followed by the Summit Devotional and Understanding and Loving Someone with Sexual Addiction in 2018, and Re:Build in 2022.  Jason, his wife Shelley and their 3 boys call Denver home.
Jason B. Martinkus
After sexual addiction almost took his life and marriage, Jason was called to help other men. He received a Bachelors degree in Finance from the University of Oklahoma and worked in the corporate world for companies such as Arthur Andersen and Interstate Batteries. After leaving corporate and going into ministry, he went back to school and received a Masters in Counseling from Denver Seminary. Today he is a Board Certified Coach and President of Redemptive Living, a Denver-based coaching and speaking ministry. He has dedicated his life to helping men find freedom from sexual integrity issues and marriages find redemption beyond betrayal. His first book, Worthy of Her Trust (Waterbrook Press) released in 2014, followed by the Summit Devotional and Understanding and Loving Someone with Sexual Addiction in 2018, and Re:Build in 2022.  Jason, his wife Shelley and their 3 boys call Denver home.
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The information in the RL Academy is the result of thousands of client hours and decades of personal journey. It's not the stuff you find in textbooks.
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Weekly scheduled Office Hours for all enrolled members to ask questions and receive relevant teaching.  (Please keep in mind these office hours are not 1:1 coaching sessions.)

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Access to our video vault; updated regularly with new content.
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Access to the Tool Box with multiple tools & instructional videos on how to use them.
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Submit questions with confidence you'll get a timely response.
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20% Discount on Men's MasterClasses (a $100 Value).
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10% Discount on WHT Men's Event Registration (a $250 Value).
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10% Discount on our KitchenConvos video course for couples (a $27 value).

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